How to Date in a New Country: An Expat's Guide

Dating abroad is one of the fastest ways to understand a new culture — and one of the easiest places to make innocent mistakes. A bit of research goes a long way.

Learn the local apps

Tinder and Bumble are global, but many countries have local favourites: Pairs in Japan, Aisle in India, Sympatia in Poland and Coffee Meets Bagel in Singapore. Our country guides list the most popular apps in each market.

Understand who pays

In the Netherlands and Germany, splitting the bill is standard. In Mexico or Nigeria, men often expect to pay on early dates. When in doubt, offer warmly and follow your date's lead.

Watch the pace

In France, a kiss can mean you're a couple. In the US, exclusivity is a separate conversation. In Korea, couples celebrate their 100-day anniversary. Ask friends what's normal locally.

Learn a few phrases

Even basic phrases in the local language show respect and interest — and make for a great conversation starter.