amisolo

Dating in Jakarta

Jakarta is hectic, modern and food-rich — and its dating scene reflects that. Here's how to meet people and plan a great date.

Singles in Jakarta

Best first date ideas in Jakarta

  • Kota Tua old town
  • SCBD rooftop
  • Satay street dinner

Pick something that lets you talk easily and leave room to extend the date if it's going well. For more inspiration, see 21 first date ideas.

Which dating apps work in Jakarta?

Singles in Jakarta mostly use Tinder, Bumble, Tantan. In a city that is hectic, modern and food-rich, profiles that mention specific local favourites — a café, a trail, a venue — tend to get more replies.

Local dating culture

Indonesian dating balances modern urban life with religious and family values; respect and patience matter.

  • Dress modestly
  • Limit public affection
  • Family approval is significant

What a date costs

Budget around Rp200,000–Rp600,000 for two for drinks or a casual dinner in Jakarta. Many of the ideas above are free or nearly free.

Safety in Jakarta

Use Gojek or Grab and meet in public.

Other cities in Indonesia

Meet singles in Jakarta

Join free