Dating in New York

Best first date ideas in New York

• Walk the High Line at sunset
• Speakeasy cocktails in the East Village
• Brooklyn Bridge Park picnic

Pick something that lets you talk easily and leave room to extend the date if it's going well. For more inspiration, see 21 first date ideas.

Which dating apps work in New York?

Singles in New York mostly use Hinge, Bumble, Tinder. In a city that is fast-paced and endlessly social, profiles that mention specific local favourites — a café, a trail, a venue — tend to get more replies.

Local dating culture

Dating is app-first and casual at the start; Americans often date several people before agreeing to be exclusive, a conversation usually called "the talk".

• Splitting the bill is increasingly common; offering to pay is appreciated
• Texting within a day after the date is normal
• Exclusivity is discussed explicitly, not assumed

What a date costs

Budget around $40–$90 for two for drinks or a casual dinner in New York. Many of the ideas above are free or nearly free.

Safety in New York

Meet in public, share your plans with a friend and use in-app video calls to verify matches.